How do you like Nebraska?
Surely the hand of Providence must be in this, as it seems
this "desert" -- as it has been termed so long -- has been specially
reserved for the poor of our land, where they can find a home for
themselves and their families. And where they can enjoy the
companionship of their loved ones, undisturbed by those that have
heretofore held them under the most exclusive control.
Uriah W. Oblinger
In the summer of 1872, a Union veteran named Uriah Wesley
Oblinger left his rented farm in Onward, Indiana, and set out with his
brother and two brothers-in-law for Nebraska, to claim the homestead to
which his military service entitled him. His wife, Mattie, and infant
daughter, Ella, were to wait at home until he sent for them.
October 6th, 1872
Dear Wife & Baby:
Well I suppose the first question you would ask me now would be, How do
you like Nebraska? Wife... you can see just as far as you please here,
and almost every foot in sight can be plowed... The longer I stay here,
the better I like it. There are... mostly young families, just starting
in life the same as we are, and I find them very generous, indeed. We
will all be poor here together. I am hunting a home for us where we can
enjoy ourselves without... being bothered doing as other people say...
I can get along well enough through the week, but when Sunday comes I
feel a little lonesome without you... Give baby a kiss -- yes, 2 of
them -- and take one yourself.
Uriah W. Oblinger
After more than a year of separation, Uriah Oblinger's long
wait ended. Mattie and Ella, along with a crate containing all their
worldly goods and another filled with live chickens, finally arrived
aboard the morning train. Uriah took them to their new home, built from
prairie sod with his own hands to begin their new life.
Dear Mother and Father:
At home in our house and a sod at that!... We moved in last Wednesday
-- Uriah's birthday -- It is not quite so convenient as a nice frame,
but I would as soon live in it as the cabins I have lived in... I
ripped our wagon sheet in two, have it around the sides and have
several papers up... It looks real swell... The only objection I have
is that we have no floor yet.
Mattie Oblinger
What a pleasure it is to work on
ones' own farm... for you can feel that it is yours and not for someone
else... I would rather live as we do than have to rent and have someone
bossing us and telling us when to move.
Uriah Oblinger
Well, we
have just come in from the truck patch and found the gophers had about
cleaned the peas off all the vines... But our squash vines are full of
bloom... and we had cucumbers sliced for breakfast. We brought in beets
just now that measured one foot in circumference and potatoes almost as
large as a goose egg.
Mattie Oblinger
Dear Grandpa:
I have learned my letters and can spell... Ax & Cat & Dog &
Girl.... I bother Pa and Ma considerable to get them to learn me... I
am learning "Twinkle, twinkle, Little Star."
Lots of love and kisses,
Ella
Uriah is repairing the minutes of
the last Literary Society which was held last Saturday night. They have
some big times debating... I go once in a while to hear them spout...
We had rather a nice time over the holidays... We had a Christmas tree
at the schoolhouse.
Mattie Oblinger
We all went to a Christmas tree on Christmas eve and each
of us girls got a new red dress... and a doll and... a string with
candy and raisins on it. From your grandchild,
Ella
I suppose you would like to know
if we have been grasshoppered again. They were here several days pretty
thick and injured the corn considerable... Nebraska would have had a
splendid crop if the grasshoppers had stayed away a while.
Mattie Oblinger
The Oblingers had two more daughters, Stella and Maggie. But
after six years on the prairie, things had not gotten easier. And by
1879, Mattie was pregnant again.
February 27th, 1880
She was confined Tuesday evening about 4 'clock and about 8 o'clock she
took a fit very sudden and never spoke after the first one. The doctors
were compelled to perform a surgical operation by relieving her of the
child... The Lord called for Sister Mattie this evening at 4:15
o'clock... and she is now resting with the angels in Heaven... The
child is also dead and will be buried with her some time Sunday.
Giles S. Thomas
Dear Father and Mother:
I try to bear the trouble cheerfully, though the task is hard at
times... I hardly know how to manage.
Uriah Oblinger
Uriah eventually took
the train back east to Minnesota and remarried. But he never gave up
his dream. He returned to the Plains to start over -- Nebraska, then
Kansas, then Nebraska again. He spent the last few months of his life
being cared for by his daughter, Ella -- the same little girl, now
grown, he had once been so anxious to bring out to Nebraska, with her
mother.
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